ELEVATE The Art of Erotic Facilitation.

Seven-Day Immersive Intensive

May 12–19, 2026

Cabo San Lucas

ELEVATE is a seven-day, luxury immersive training for facilitators, educators, and space-holders who feel called to work with intimacy, embodiment, and erotic-positive spaces in a grounded, ethical, and impactful way.

After the depth and resonance of our 2024 training, we expanded ELEVATE into a full seven-day intensive—creating more room for embodiment, practice, feedback, and integration.

This is not a passive retreat.

This is an active expansion in how to hold rooms that transform people.

THIS IS NOT A PLAY PARTY

ABOUT EROTIC ENERGY & PLAY

ELEVATE is an adult, consent-based training environment rooted in trust, discernment, and personal responsibility.

Participants are trusted to make choices that support their own wellbeing and the integrity of the container. Erotic energy may naturally arise in the context of embodied learning, relational exploration, and facilitation practice and when aligned with the agreements of the space, this energy is welcome and appropriate.

This training is not a free-form play party. However, it does include:

• learning how play spaces are designed and facilitated

• opportunities to explore, co-create, and debrief facilitation containers

• moments where play, erotic expression, or somatic exploration may be part of the learning process

Participation in any activity is always optional.

Choosing to witness, observe, reflect, or take notes is not only acceptable, it is often a valuable and intentional form of participation. There is no expectation to perform, escalate, or engage beyond your authentic yes.

ELEVATE centers consent, agency, and attunement over outcome. How you participate is part of the learning.

WHO THIS IS FOR

ELEVATE is ideal for:

• Aspiring or active facilitators of erotic, sensual, or transformational spaces

• Coaches, educators, artists, and community leaders working with embodiment and intimacy

• Experienced practitioners ready to refine their voice, presence, and ethics

• Those willing to engage in personal growth, feedback, and embodied practice

This training may not be aligned if you are looking for:

• A vacation-style retreat however, this is a fun experience.

• A sexually performative environment

• A hands-off or observer-only experience

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN

This seven-day intensive offers a practical, embodied curriculum including:

• Opening Circles & Thresholds

  
  

  Creating warm, inclusive openings—from non-erotic to explicitly erotic spaces

• Authentic Relating & Group Coherence

  
  

  Building trust, intimacy, and safety from the very beginning

• Behind the Scenes of Brave Space Design

  
  

  Agreements, consent culture, nervous-system awareness, and group flow

• Facilitator Ethics & Professionalism

  
  

  Responsibility, power dynamics, and integrity in erotic-positive spaces

• Collaboration & Co-Facilitation

  
  

  Designing aligned partnerships that amplify impact

• Container & Party Intention Design

  
  

  Matching facilitation style to purpose—from conversion to immersive kinky

• Music & Movement as Facilitation Tools

  
  

  How sound and movement anchor learning and integration

  
  

  Includes a special movement session with guest teacher Peter Petersen

• Exclusive vs Inclusive Containers

  
  

  Vetting, clarity, and intentional access

• Queer & Diversity-Aware Facilitation

  
  

  Holding LGBTQ+ inclusive spaces with care and competence

• Immersive Space Creation

  
  

  Using décor, scent, performance, demos, agreements, and music to create embodied experiences

THE ARC OF THE WEEK

While responsive to the group, the training generally unfolds through:

• Grounding, trust, and nervous-system settling

• Voice, presence, and embodied leadership

• Ethics, consent, and power awareness

• Erotic nuance and group dynamics

• Collaboration and facilitation labs

• Integration, reflection, and next-step clarity

There is space to deepen and to rest.

Luxury here means time, care, and spaciousness.

SIGNATURE EXPERIENCES

Private Boat Excursion

A half-day, private boat experience to Lovers & Divorce Beach—designed as an integration and bonding experience that brings learning into the body, nature, and collective field.

ELEVATE Workbook

Each participant receives a custom-designed workbook used throughout the week for reflection, frameworks, and integration. This becomes a lasting resource beyond the training.

CARE & CONSENT

We prioritize emotional safety, consent, and nervous-system awareness throughout the immersion.

Clear agreements, skilled facilitation, and optional support spaces ensure participants are met with choice, agency, and care, even in moments of intensity.

LOCATION & ACCOMMODATIONS

Location:

Cabo San Lucas

Main House

Private luxury courtyard featuring:

• Heated saltwater pool

• Hot tub

• Communal gathering spaces

Condos

Walking distance in a gated beachfront community:

• Full kitchens

• Two bathrooms

• Washer & dryer

• Snorkels and beach essentials

Room Selection

First-come, first-served

Single rooms and shared queen options available

INVESTMENT

Earliest Bird (through Jan 30)

$1,797

Early Bird

$2,097

General Admission

$2,797

Mentorship Tier

$3,497

Tuition includes:

• Full seven-day immersive training

• Accommodations

• Daily breakfast & lunch

• All materials and workbook

• Private boat excursion

Mentorship Tier:

The Mentorship Tier includes six months of monthly group check-in calls with Major Tom and Monique Darling, offering continued integration, reflection, and support as you bring your facilitation into the world.

Limited to 20 participants.

Payment plans available.

APPLICATION PROCESS

To protect the integrity of the container, ELEVATE is application-based.

Step 1: Complete the application form

Step 2: Applications are reviewed

Step 3: Accepted participants receive a private ticket link

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YOUR FACILITATORS

Major Tom

Intimacy coach and facilitator at ConsciousPlay.net, co-founder of Temple of Hedonism, and co-producer of Virtual Intimacy Retreat and FROLIC Play Party Convergence.

Major blends authentic relating, integral theory, movement, and experiential design to create brave, erotic-positive spaces rooted in integrity and growth.

Monique Darling

Author of Beyond Cuddle Party and founder of Everyday Tantra. Monique has led over 4,500 workshops over 13 years and teaches internationally on embodiment, sensuality, vulnerability, and presence.

Guest Teacher: Peter Petersen

With over 20 years of Qigong teaching and 18 years as a certified massage therapist, Peter brings grounding, sustainable movement practices that support nervous-system health and embodied leadership.

READY TO ELEVATE?

If you feel the pull, trust it.

This is an invitation into mastery, embodiment, and ethical erotic leadership—held in a luxurious, intentional container.

Apply now to be considered.