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Elevate: The Art Of Erotic Facilitation - 5-Day Intensive

Updated: Mar 27

Elevate Your Facilitation Journey: A Five-Day Intensive in Cabo, Mexico!

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Embark on a transformative journey with Major and Monique, globe-trotting facilitators known for igniting change in cities, countries, and festivals worldwide.

If you've ever wondered, "How do I do what you do?" – this immersion is your golden opportunity.

Unleash Your Content Artistry:

In the heart of this immersive experience lies the key to unlocking your unique, one-of-a-kind voice. For budding facilitators eager to elevate their craft, we are here to guide you through a five-day intensive designed to fast-track your career.

Overcome Barriers:

Hesitation to step into the facilitator's spotlight is often rooted in a lack of confidence and the challenge of creating unique material for diverse audiences. This intensive addresses these barriers head-on with humor and expertise.

Your Time to Shine:

If you've been feeling the ticking clock and sensing the urgency to break free from conventional paths, this is YOUR time. Whether you dream of stepping out of the 9 to 5 path, transforming the world with your gifts, or simply want a step-by-step guide to offering experiential workshops, we’ve got you covered.

Why Now? Because...

Time is precious, and your gifts are too valuable to be constrained. If you're ready to stop working for someone else and forge your own path, Major and Monique invite you to seize this moment and join a community of like-minded individuals ready to make a lasting impact.

Elevate Your Facilitation. Elevate Your Voice. Elevate Your Impact.

Now is the time to turn your aspirations into reality. Join us for this intensive, where your journey as a facilitator takes flight, and your unique voice becomes the catalyst for transformative experiences.

Here, we not only explore the intricate world of sxx-positive facilitation but also empower you to elevate your skills through an enriching program covering:

Welcome Circle Wisdom:

Discover the significance of welcome circles in creating a warm and inclusive atmosphere for non-sexual to explicitly sexual events.

Authentic & Intentional Relating:

Engage in powerful activities fostering genuine connections and understanding among participants, laying the foundation for impactful facilitation. We teach you how to bring intimacy into your trainings from the very beginning.

Behind the Scenes of Safe/Brave Spaces:

Gain insights into the nuances of maintaining a secure and welcoming environment for all, helping to improve the safety and comfort of every participant, with the least harm.

Facilitator Etiquette:

Navigate the responsibilities and etiquettes of being a facilitator in sex-positive spaces, cultivating an environment of respect and professionalism.

Collaboration Dynamics:

Learn the dos and don'ts of collaborating with others, enhancing the collective experience through effective teamwork. How 1+1 can equal 1,000!! When you find those who are a good fit for you as co-teachers, organizers, hosts, and assistants.

Party Intentions Guide:

Understand how to align your facilitation with the intended atmosphere, from Rated G to very kinky or sexual events, ensuring seamless event execution.

Music and Movement

Creating playlists, dance sets, and why opening the space with movement is so important. How different music sets the tone or anchors home your points and how it helps with integration.

We’ve brought in the movement master Peter Petersen, as a special guest star, to offer an entire session on incorporating movement into your offerings.

Exclusive vs Inclusive Dynamics:

Delve into the nuances of creating events that are either exclusive or inclusive, catering to diverse preferences and needs.

Queer & Diversity Training:

Gain valuable insights and skills in facilitating events that cater to the LGBTQ+ community, fostering inclusivity and diversity.

Facilitating Fuller Experiential Spaces:

Learn the art of creating immersive experiences with decor, music(playlist), smell, demos, and agreements, elevating the overall participant experience


- When: Nov 10-15, 2024

- Where: Cabo San Lucas, Mexico

- Main House: Luxury, private courtyard with a heated saltwater pool and hot tub.

- Condos: Walking distance to the house, shared with other participants. Gated community on the shore of Cabo San Lucas with a private beach. Full kitchens, two bathrooms, washer/dryer, plus snorkels and beach essentials in every condo.

- Accommodations: First come, first served for room and bed choice. Some singles and a few shared queens.

- Cost: $1500 early bird -$1750 regular price for the 5-day experience, including training, all materials, accommodations, breakfast, and lunch.

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Limited to 20 participants

Elevate your facilitation journey with us – where knowledge meets experience, and connections flourish.

Maybe you want to experience us before then... here's a perfect opportunity

About US:

Major is an intimacy coach/facilitator at, co-founder of Temple Of Hedonism, and Co-Producer of and I.R.L. Intimacy Retreat.

Trained as an authentic relating facilitator, he utilizes Integral Theory to create exercises in different practices of acting, movement, and intimacy. My innovation and penchant for levity create a brave experiential container for people to blossom open and deepen the relationship to self and others. Authentic Relating Games allow you to intimately know yourself and create a space for decentralized processing.

He intends to show up authentically to create safety and permission for others to show up fully. My containers are for deep intimacy and growth. He believes that when we locate and push against our edges, that is where growth can happen.

With 100+ play parties created in person and online, he has tapped into the many different flavors and is ready to share the secrets!

Monique Darling, Author of 'Beyond Cuddle Party' and workshop facilitator extraordinaire, was born on this planet with the unique gifts and soul calling to help you remember how magnificent you truly are! Messages from your ancestors, your spirit guides, your body, nature, your soul, are all called upon and utilized so that you walk away knowing how deeply the cosmos loves you for YOU, exactly as you are, so you can begin to love and accept yourself too.

YOU, you are the gift!

Monique has led over 4500 workshops in the past 13 years. She has taught at colleges across the US including Yale. She has been featured on TLC and The Dr’s as well as various radio shows, podcasts and magazines across the globe. She specializes in helping others reclaim their power and natural sensuality by transmuting fear and repression into courage, self-love and freedom. Her primary purpose is helping folks bring out their vulnerability, energetic embodiment and fearless relating. Learn more about Monique by going to

About our special guest movement facilitator Peter Petersen has been teaching qigong for 20 years and has been a certified massage therapist for the last 18 years. Peter has been teaching in health clubs, hospitals, retirement villas, and several different wellness/spa resorts in Mexico and the United States, such as Rancho La Puerta, Mayacamas Ranch, and Present Moment Retreat.

Peter is also a personal wellness coach. This Qigong practice helps people ground themselves into their “now” to increase their present-moment awareness of their behaviors and find simple solutions to problematic habits such as: eating, moving, negative thinking, and sleeping. The result of this toolbox of healthy information is that clients become their own health advocate and regain a sense of stability, peace, and well-being in their everyday lives.

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